Ever since high school where many of the all-male students used to test each other’s maleness by beating up the weaker students and competing in he-man sports like wrestling and basketball (the most popular and highly funded sports in the school) to bolster up an image of glory and dominance, I’ve disliked, even hated, sports that emphasized one person’s preeminence over another. I’ve steered away from gyms where the odor of male sweat and the sight of men sizing up one another both intimidated me and made me feel scornful. And, after, the bench-warming days of the high-school soccer team, where winning the matches played a more important role in the existence of the team than the enjoyment and participation of the sport that every team member had signed up for, I have rarely gone to mass spectator games or found much interest in the super-hero athletes that so many boys get all starry-eyed over. All of it was annoying and pointless, with too much weighted toward crooning over men who spend their lives kicking or throwing a ball, rather than giving equal respect and praise toward those who might prefer to use their minds. I have nothing against people who do amazing things with their bodies and take care of their health in a balanced way; I just have little patience for people who spend too much time thinking about winning and losing.
I guess these are some reasons why, ever since I can remember, the equally physically demanding sports like hiking and mountain climbing, bicycle touring, and kayak touring have always held such great appeal to me. They don’t require that you compete against anyone but yourself, and they rarely come with rewards other than the accomplishment of reaching a peak or simply being immersed in the elements, feeling alive. I still have high school classmates who snicker when I tell them I love backpacking, thinking that what I do is somehow not cool or that it is wimpy. But that’s the thing about such activities: I have nothing to prove to anyone. And so their comments slide off, sounding silly and ignorant. I doubt most of those former classmates could keep up with me on the hills.
Over the last few years I’ve let my body run down, though, and for the first time in my life I’ve gained weight. This is due mainly to the amount of insulin I have to take, which causes me to gain weight even on modest amounts of food. With my desk job and distance from the mountains (the nearest mountains are two and a half hours away by express train and those are not even the real mountains I love walking in… it takes me at least four hours to go to the bases of the nearest higher peaks and about six or seven hours to the places I’m most interested in… all of which makes it hard to get out to where I want to be on the weekends, especially since I’ve still got to climb those slopes!) it is harder now to get the mountain training I need, but I’ve also slacked off from sheer laziness. Depression had me lying about too much, getting soft.
Back in January, though, I, and some of my university colleagues, got together to learn and train with Crossfit, a training regimen that focuses on all-around fitness by concentrating on intense, short workouts that vary day-to-day, and are scaled according to one’s level of fitness and abilities. It is quite demanding and never easy, but the results have been astonishing. My muscles have grown and the strength of my twenties is slowly returning (though recovery is taking considerably longer). I surprised myself the other day by being able to do 53 pull ups without overly straining myself. And last Sunday I did a 10 kilometer run during which the old rolling, smooth glide over the ground, where my legs feel as if I am flying without gravity, something that I hadn’t felt since 1997 when I used to run every day, returned. The fat has yet to really come off, but that is only a matter of time. When I visited my diabetes doctor last month she announced that my blood hemoglobin (the measure of the severity of the diabetes, with 6 being normal and 10 to 12, which I had been at for over seven years, being close to dangerous) was better than it had been in seven years. At this rate I will be able to scale the more difficult peaks this summer, something I had almost given up on in the last few years.
The funny thing is, I enjoy heading to the gym now. Having those young, annoyingly fit judo fighters and gymnasts from the university pumping weights alongside me no longer bothers me. For the first time I see their world a little bit more from their point of view, and it isn’t so different from mine. Maybe it’s just Crossfit, which discourages too much competitive comparison with others, or maybe it’s because I feel stronger and competent enough to challenge those youngsters should I desire to.
Whatever the reason, it’s just good to be in shape and feeling good about my body. If only they had taught this back in high school!
5 replies on “The Strength Within”
Congratulations on becoming so fit and feeling happier! You are an inspiration. I agree, even from a woman’s point of view, that school sports focus too much on competition. Maybe it’s an easier way for the teachers to manage a large class? Teaching students how to do life long physical activities on their own by helping them find what interests them the most, whether it’s team sports or hiking or jogging, is the best kind of physical education. Anyway, I hope you get a chance to go to some of your beloved mountains soon!
I’ve always had much the same reaction to gym and sports. But probably now it wouldn’t bother me to be around all those testosterone-crazed young whippersnappers. Which doesn’t necessarily mean I’m going to be following your example any time soon…
Great that you discovered fitness as a way to feel better and get your insulin down. Although I’m not so fit now, I have plan to get started again as it really means freedom as we age to do much more than is otherwise possible. Besides if I am still in the country, I may need the strength to chop wood this coming winter. That axe is twice as heavy as I remembered.
I’ll check out Crossfit as it sounds like it’s workng for you. I can only dream of pull-ups.
Nice to hear you feeling happy and more settled and great you have met a few friends. It makes all the difference. In this and your future, whatever you do, I wish you as much happiness as you can hold. 🙂
I’m reading through your older posts right now and just found this one – it’s funny, I just started going regularly to the gym – for the first time in my life – this year.
I’m now in my 40s and I also started to realize that I’m gaining weight a lot easier then when I was a young whippersnapper. 🙂 So I started swimming three times a week and it’s been doing wonders for my body and my spirit… I know how you feel now.
So congratulations and I hope you’ll be taking your rejuvenated body up into the mountains some time this year!